"You do not give up on the people you love for such small reasons." 

This is what I realised today evening when I was thinking if it would be somehow be better if I called it quits. I had been thinking this for a day now but somehow today was when I remembered this very important thing. You do not give up on the people you love for such small things.

It isn't that this concept is new to me. It is the fact that it has been a while now that I have cared about anyone enough to not give up on them if it does not suit my needs. I know it sounds horrible but in life you do need to give up on things and people that hinder you from reaching your potential. It is not something that I regret doing because I learned the hard way around that though there might be fifty people that you talk to, only a very few actually make any significant difference in your life.

Everyday, every moment I need to consciously remind myself not to give up, not because I want to in particular but because it has been a while since something or someone has mattered enough for me to actually want to see how it goes.

So, yeah, you do not give up on the people you love all the while hoping that they will stay, no matter what..that they do not give up on you.