There is no space in my life for lies and games. You either like me for who I am or simply don't be a part of my life. It's that simple. I will not make the extra effort to get to know you unless something about you shouts out to me, or makes me think "That's the kind off person I want to surround myself with." No more wasting time on people that don't make any impact on your life, or give you goosebumps, or the people who simply do not put in the same effort to stay in your life as you do to be a part of their's. It is a waste of your time, energy and at the end of the day leaves you feeling broken and useless.
I absolutely refuse to feel that way about myself, no matter for whom, much less for people that never
loved me or cared enough for me.
I've realised that I could've had a million people around me, whom I call my "friends" but at the end of the day if I can't hold a mindbogglingly honest conversation with them, then they aren't really my friends, are they?
See that's why I think people give sex a lot more importance than it truly deserves. Sure it can be wonderful but it's just that. Sex. No matter how good it is, unless you feel something for the person you're with at that moment, at the end of the day it's just sex. Now don't confuse lust with actual emotions. See there's where I don't understand people, they pay so much heed to sex; good or bad, whether you're open about it or whether it's almost a taboo. I'd rather have a liberating conversation with someone who makes me see things in a different way, think things I'd never thought of before, with whom I can say what I want to without having to think twice, with whom I can discuss all my hopes and dreams, who's intellect is at par with mine. I think in life we need somebody that makes love to our mind before ever laying a hand on our body.
I absolutely refuse to feel that way about myself, no matter for whom, much less for people that never
loved me or cared enough for me.
I've realised that I could've had a million people around me, whom I call my "friends" but at the end of the day if I can't hold a mindbogglingly honest conversation with them, then they aren't really my friends, are they?
See that's why I think people give sex a lot more importance than it truly deserves. Sure it can be wonderful but it's just that. Sex. No matter how good it is, unless you feel something for the person you're with at that moment, at the end of the day it's just sex. Now don't confuse lust with actual emotions. See there's where I don't understand people, they pay so much heed to sex; good or bad, whether you're open about it or whether it's almost a taboo. I'd rather have a liberating conversation with someone who makes me see things in a different way, think things I'd never thought of before, with whom I can say what I want to without having to think twice, with whom I can discuss all my hopes and dreams, who's intellect is at par with mine. I think in life we need somebody that makes love to our mind before ever laying a hand on our body.
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